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Juan and Esperanza's Wedding!

Juan and Esperanza had a beautiful ceremony in a very modern cathedral, south of the city, followed by a wild reception at a nearby athletic club (think country club, without the golf or country). We had never seen Carnival-style dancers on stilts at a wedding before...or balloons and party hats. But, I have to admit it was very festive and fun. And certainly memorable.

Mexican weddings start at around 8:00 in the evening. The invitation will likely say that it starts at 7:00 or 7:30, but everyone knows that is just to make sure you are there in time for the ceremony to start. That said, there were still people arriving, even as the ceremony was ending. While the couple is taking their vows, everyone was handed a small silver bell to ring as the couple walked back down the isle at the end of the ceremony. That was fantastic, and loud!

The reception doesn't start until around 10:00 p.m. Food is served around midnight. Dancing starts around 1:00. And, for those who find themselves still hungry, a second meal is served at round 3:30. Yes, we slept very late the next day.

Many men wear "smokings" or tuxedos to weddings. Even if they are not part of the immediate family. This custom is fading due to the high cost of tuxedo rentals, plus, they make you buy the tuxedo shirt, tie, and cumberbun. So, most men wear a black suit and white shirt. Ladies wear very formal (expensive) dresses.

Photos courtesy of my friend Juan Carlos.

Throwing the garder

Ana Diaz, Juan, and Juan Carlos' wife Sonia

My bowling buddies: Marcelino, Juan, and Juan Carlos

No, wait, give me the camera!

The full boliché team

Jan & I with the groom

Dancing the night away

with balloons

and guys on stilts!

Sandy's wedding is next.

Sonia

Betty and Gabriel

The huge band in one of many costumes

Everyone wants to dance with Juan

The bride dancing

The groom dancing

The bride and groom dancing

Mariana dancing

The girls from the office

Nice shoes!